Your child can regulate themselves with your support!
The sensory overload, the decision fatigue, the hyper-stimulated motor cortex and amygdala, the survival mode, each child’s individual ability to regulate… Understand these things, and support them, and the behaviours will honestly just start to sort themselves out!
Behavioural framework, paradigm, management and expectations are still the biggest part of how we approach working with and caring for children. But we have it all wrong, cause the Behaviour is just the byproduct, and the underlying reason for the behaviour is where our focus should be.
I invite you to join me for my 10-week Brains = Behaviours eCourse, Registrations are OPEN now ready to start next week. https://www.allisondavies.com.au/behaviours/
You officially have permission to move from behavioural management to brain management.
Fa real!! You have permission to let go of behaviour management!! Can I have a hell yeah?!?!
Did you know I held a live workshop where together we looked at the worrying behaviours your children experience, and we talked about which actions could take place for you to support their underlying needs?
I can guarantee you that every behaviour you see will fit into one of either two categories, and working this out will be a series of monumental lightbulb moments. Make a coffee and put aside an hour now.
View the workshop replay for a limited time by signing up here! https://www.allisondavies.com.au/workshop/
“The behaviours are never really the problem. The behaviours are the result of the problem, which is why behaviour management just isn’t cutting it. Understanding our child’s brain, how it works and how to care for it is the ONLY way to make real behavioural change. ” – Allison Davies
If you’re even remotely ready to start really understanding how your child’s brain works, how it develops, how it functions and how to support it so your child can function at their best? Then Brains = Behaviours can give you the framework to understand it.
Brains = Behaviours eCourse 10-week online starts Monday 31 August 2020. Hope to see you there.
More about me, I’m Alli. I’m woman, I’m mum, I’m wife, I’m change maker.
I’m also autistic, Tasmanian, Emotional, Creative and Connected.
My role here is to champion brain care so that together we can ditch the hell out of behavioural management.
Brain care, not behaviour management!
Because all, all, ALL of the problematic behaviours are a nothing but a bi-product of what’s going on in the brain. (And crew, I’m not talking about annoying behaviours, they’re meant to happen! I’m talking about the dangerous, the risky, the detrimental). The meltdown, the shutdown, the tantrum, the masking, the avoiding, the running away, the punching, kicking, screaming, biting, self-harming – all of it.
They’re all a direct result of what the brain, the body, the nervous systems are doing.
Behaviour management is so freakin old fashioned! But regulation? Is KEY.
And my fave way to self/co-regulate? Is with music. Did I mention I’m a neurologic music therapist? Oh yeah, we’ll there’s that too!
When we experience music more of our brain becomes active than when we experience Any. Other. Thing!! (Anything that has been researched anyway.) And given we are innately musical beings, plus we all have musical identities, plus music is free and accessible – it’s the OBVIOUS choice for brain care.
Here you will find brain talk, you will find music talk, you will find stories from my own life and you will find a cracking community all committed to changing the paradigm and supporting their children to function at their best.
Sign up or find out more about 10-week, Brains = Behaviours eCourse. Registrations are OPEN now ready to start next week.
Payment plans and lifetime access available. https://www.allisondavies.com.au/behaviours/