Anxiety = Survival Mode.
Survival mode is the neurologic component, anxiety is the physiological experience. And anxiety can express itself in so DARN many ways! Both internally and/or externally!
Because externally we may not present with anxiety at all, but our internal state? The exhaustion, the headache, the heart rate – that may just paint a different picture.
Anxiety may show up externally with
- aggression & anger,
- running away,
- fast and shallow breath,
- not able to inhibit behaviours,
- quick temper,
- need to control,
- need to conform,
- + more
Anxiety may show up internally with
- a sense of rage,
- digestion issues,
- increased heart rate,
- shut down,
- inability to focus,
- inability to talk,
- unable to regulate emotions
- + more
You can’t always ‘see’ anxiety.
In my own childhood, I was living all the internal characteristics, coupled with an overwhelming need to conform – which meant I was trying to be like everyone else, therefore not a single externalised anxiety-related behaviour!
Anxiety is sneaky like that – it can’t always be seen. And that’s why I’m a big fan of supporting all children to become aware of their own needs and to self regulate.
And us adults? We need to walk that talk ourselves.
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